31 August 2009

Conversations: Yellowstone Edition

Pre-Yellowstone Conversations

Chloe (helping Cannon walk)-- Mama, I've got this little man mobilized!

Lily (at swim lessons, to her teacher, Miss Gin) -- I know you're going to be here tomorrow and I know you're (hiccup) going to be here (hiccup) tonight too because I know (hiccup) you live at this place (hiccup) and I also sort of have the hiccups.

Cannon-- Mamamama (but only when he's whining)


Yellowstone Conversations

Chloe-- Are we there yet?

Lily (singing at the top of her voice)-- buy me some peanuts or jackercracks.

Lily--I don't need to go potty anymore.
Me -- Why?
Lily -- Because my potty went back up inside of my front bottom.

Lily--Daddy, to go downhill all you have to do is to go uphill first.
Stanton-- Lily, how do you know that?
Lily--It's just in my mind...

Lily-- Cannon can play with my toys until we get to Michael Jackson's
(We were on our way to stop in Jackson before Yellowstone).

Lily-- Mama, I was thinkin' to myself..."how can I talk with this
Smartie on my tongue?"
I think that just might be the first time she actually thought something before saying it...and it was the only 7.2 seconds of silence we had from her the whole trip. :)

When we stopped to see the first buffalo when we got into the park, Chloe grabbed a piece of paper and a crayon and drew a detailed and very nice picture of it.

Chloe has taught herself how to burp on demand.

Various times from every kid -- Are we in Yellowstone?
Stanton or me -- Yes.
Kids -- But I don't see any yellow stones.

Lily-- passes gas
Me-- Lily, you've got gas.
Lily excitedly -- My gas came back!!!!

Chloe (when I had my bangs clipped back) -- Mom, your hair looks like Shaynna's!
Shaynna, I knew you'd really appreciate that one!!

Various times from each kid -- That was totally awesome!

Various times from each kid -- Oh, I've GOT to get a picture of this!

Passing Sulfur Cauldron Lily -- I smell something stinky.
Stanton-- Lily, did you toot?
Brigham-- No, dat was a buffawo.
Stanton-- Oh, a buffalo had gas?
Lily-- Actually, it was me who tooted.

Yes, I do realize that we totally encourage the whole gas talk from her. It's just so funny, though!

Making animal noises with the milk in her throat--
Lily-- now what animal do you want me to sound like?
Me-- I want you to sound like a giraffe.
Silence for a minute-
Lily-- Giraffes don't make any sound.
Me-- Yes, exactly.
That lasted for About 5 seconds before she was asking what new animal sound
she should make.

Brigham -- I need my brulella!


There are an abundance of Lily quotes here, I know. We moved her up front in the van on the same row as the boys so we'd have room for all our gear. As a result, we were treated to even more conversation than usual from her.

Chloe sat in the way back all by herself and although she didn't have a lot to say, she was so amazingly good traveling.

Just Can't Have that One at the Top

I just have to note that this weekend was extremely stressful for me. We started school, had a heart scare with Brigham, had a birthday, had an anniversary, had a family outing without Dad, and I had to speak in church. I was just emotionally and physically spent after all of it. And sweet Chloe, bless her heart, is very linked to me emotionally. She feeds off of me and exaggerates it to an extreme. The whole hair cutting episode was just the straw that broke the camel's back. I really, truly, honestly, do not care one iota about Brigham's haircut. And I don't even care all that much that she lied about it...I mean, every kid lies about stuff like that. I was just at my emotional and physical outer limits by that point and so it really got me. But, I do have to just put this out there for my own remembrance --- I did not yell at her. I did not spank her. I simply sent her to her room and she stayed there all afternoon. That, for me, was a huge coup.

This morning Chloe got up, got herself ready for school and was a complete gem all morning. Two steps forward. And I love that sweet little girl.

30 August 2009

Kid for Sale

Chloe is really challenging me lately. She is just bratty, sassy, disobedient, and ornery. And when she's in a bad mood, she makes certain everyone in the house is miserable with her.

One of the things that frustrates me most is that she is so sweet everywhere but our home. She comes across as shy and sweet and perfect in school and church, but at home, she's a little monster.

Today she threw in another special little challenge. She cut Brigham's hair. Seriously, I don't care about the hair, really, I don't. What completely kills me is that while the kids were playing, I heard her say, "Let's play sick, I'll give you a bandaid and then we'll cut your hair." I went out and specifically said, "Chloe, no real cutting hair, just pretend, okay?" She said, "Oh, of course, Mom. It's totally for pretend."
Well, she lied.

She's not really for sale. I love her dearly and appreciate the special little girl that she is and has the potential to become. I'm just extremely fed up with the kid she's being right now.

Century

While we were at the fair, Stanton was out accomplishing something really amazing. And I don't even have a picture to document it.

He and Don and a few friends from our neighborhood rode in the Cache Valley Century bike race. It's a 100 mile race, and a 100 km race (60 miles). Stanton started out planning to do the metric century, but felt so good he kept going...and he rode the entire 100 miles!!!

A year ago when he started this hobby, neither of us expected he'd enjoy it as much as he does. He's absolutely loved it and I'm really proud of what he's accomplished!

County Fair




I love the county fair, especially the Box Elder county fair.

We drove over there yesterday and ate hamburgers, rode rides, and visited with my extended family. Always a blast.

Happy Birthday, Brigham!!!

Brig turned 3 on Friday. 3?? Crazy.

He requested a Batman cake (he's never seen a Batman episode in his life and is all of a sudden loving it) and we ended up just running with it for the day.

He had his eyes closed so we would all "surprise" him for his birthday.


Chloe made this craft for him. He got some fun presents: golf club and balls from my mom and dad, a bubble mower from Dave & Judy and Grandma Allen, a basketball hoop from us, and blocks from the kids. He loved all of it.


Loved his cake.

Brigham is an absolute ray of sunshine in our home. He is kind, funny, lately obsessed with filling the sink with water and making a huge mess out of it, easily entreated, affectionate, potty trained (!), in love with tractors, cars, and Batman, a miracle, very kind hearted.

I'm so glad he's mine and he's here and he's healthy. Love this boy.

While She was at School

Lil and Brig wanted to take a walk while Chloe was at school, so we headed out around the block.

Later that day they each had their preschool open houses. It's going to be such a different year. Up until now it's been like Groundhog Day every day. You remember that movie? That's pretty much been the last 5 years of my life. Now the girls will both be in school in the mornings at the same time (Chloe 5 days/week, Lily 3 days/week) and Brigham will be gone for 2 hours in the afternoon two days a week. Like I mentioned before, we're starting a new phase while staying in this same one we've been in. I don't know how we're going to do it, but I feel like it will be a good thing. Anyway, I sure love the kids.

A Kindergartner???

Chloe started school on Thursday. I can hardly believe it.

I have waited and waited and waited for this moment in our family's life and now that it's here, I am pretty emotional about it. The domino has officially tipped and we begin a new phase of our family life.


Chloe was really excited on her first day. She got her clothes out the night before, had a bath, decided how she wanted her hair done, and got a blessing from Stanton. Thursday morning she had a hard time focusing on getting ready (as always), but we made it out the door on time and all walked her to school. She knew just what to do, where to put her backpack, and found her seat easily.


We waited for her after school and got a great report of all the day's activities. She's really going to do well and I look forward to the maturity that I hope will develop as she goes throughout the year.

Way to go, Chloe!

Lifesaver

I somehow managed to time my drowning episode perfectly with a scheduled visit from my mom. She helped me get the laundry under control (it's back to ridiculous again) and get the garden preserved.
We froze several bags of peppers (the colored ones were from the store, green from the garden) and 28 quarts of corn.

I really appreciated her help.

Another First

Stanton finished his very first book this week. Well, the very first book he's ever read for pleasure.

Thank you, Mr. Armstrong.

Kindergarten Assessment

Chloe, Stanton, & I went to the school on Monday (24th) night for Kindergarten assessment. She met her teacher, Mrs. Ashcroft (so excited about her).

Chloe did really well and was so excited to be in her classroom with her teacher.

I got really emotional as I watched her goodness come through in her time with her teacher. Kindergarten is a huge new adventure for her and our family. She seems like the perfect kid to be doing it first.

You Did What?!

We got home Saturday night and Sunday morning was the Oquirrh Mountain Temple Dedication. It was earlier and shorter than our regular church service, so after it was over, we decided to drive another 3.5 hours to meet Dave & Judy and Don & Ann and their girls in Idaho Falls to look at graves.

We finally took Chloe to Chloe Gardner Anderson's grave for a picture. She was so happy.

We also got Cannon next to his namesakes' grave, Cannon Christian Anderson. (They, by the way, are mother and son.)

We didn't make it to my Grandpa J's grave or to visit my Grandma J, so that will have to be for another trip.
We did, however, stop in and see my folks, which is always fun. It was short, but I was glad we made it.
Considering how stinking much driving we'd done over the last 3 days, the kids were amazing. And it was fun to spend a Sunday decorating graves.

27 August 2009

Our First Real Family Vacation

Yeah, there've been a few overnighters here and there, but this was the first "real" one. And it was great.

We left for Yellowstone on the 20th. We got on the road by 9:00 am, which I thought was really something to brag about.
We went the Jackson way thinking it would be faster due to the major road closure in the Park. We were wrong. There was serious construction getting into the Park and so what should have been a 5 1/2 hour drive turned into 7. It was long, but the kids really did a great job. I had a basket full of activities, snacks, and movies and they really kept pretty darned entertained. Cannon was the only limiting factor, as he is hardly entertained by anything at this age (you know, except by being held or walking around -- two things that just don't happen in the car). He did very well, all things considered, and that helped the other kids to do well, too.

As we drove into Yellowstone, the kids immediately started looking for wildlife. We were treated to several buffalo, one of which was very close...so close, in fact, that the kids all wanted to get back in the car. We also caught a glimpse of a coyote and an elk that first day.
We got to our cabin at the Canyon village and ate dinner at a picnic area nearby. We bought a very cool Camp Chef oven (it has 2 burners on top and an oven on the bottom...a real oven that holds a 9x13 pan!). We used that to cook tin foil dinners, as there are pretty strict no fire rules at most of the picnic areas.
While the dinners were cooking, we went to look at a group of buffalo that were right by the picnic area. We were within 25 yards of them and they just hung out right next to us. As they started to move in closer, we felt like it was a good time to get back to eating and leaving quickly. The kids ate great and then we headed back to the cabin. We decided to take one little loop that was off the main road and I'm glad we did. We saw an elk within about 10 yards of us! I don't know that I've ever seen so much wildlife in Yellowstone before. It was so cool. The kids absolutely loved all the animals.
Okay, they don't look like they're loving anything in this picture, but whatever.
He spent most of his vacation in this or a stroller. Not his favorite places, but he did well, all things considered.

We finally got back to the cabin and got ready for bed. It was a typical first night --- LONG. And sleepless. But we made it through and headed off for our next day's adventures.

On Friday, we went to another picnic area to make breakfast. While we waited for the muffins, the kids ran up a hill into a very pretty meadow. After breakfast, I went with them again.
These were the treasures they collected for me during breakfast. Lily wasn't allowed to go on the hike with us the second time around because she was whining so bad. I think the grape was from her?
One of the many, many buffalo we saw on this trip and not one of the closest up.

We hit most of the sights we were wanting to visit. We drove the lower loop all the way around and started at the Artist Paint Pots. It was the perfect little path for the kids to walk on. They enjoyed taking pictures of things with their own disposable cameras.
With their cameras at the Paint Pots. Lily: "I've got to get a video of this, Mom!"

I was surprised at how many looks we got from people even at a place like this. We were a definite stand out with our four young kids. People are and were generally very kind, though.

After the paint pots, we caught Old Faithful. Luckily, we only had to wait about 25 minutes. I don't think the kids would have lasted much longer. I was surprised at how totally enthralled with the geyser the girls were. They absolutely loved it! They shot way too many pictures of it, but oh well, that's why they got their own cameras.


We had a picnic after Old Faithful. Simple lunch of sandwiches, chips, and fruit. Stanton took the kids on a little walk, which was good because he'd been pretty upset with them after Old Faithful (I think Chloe was being a stinker about buckling up or something--- we were all tired). They all came back happy.

After our picnic, we started to drive back to the cabin, but ended up deciding to go see the Lower Falls. We got Cannon in the backpack (thanks, MN8), Brigham in the stroller, and the girls by our sides. We headed down the trail about 1/4 of the way in, a couple stopped us and told us we wouldn't be able to take the stroller down because there were stairs most of the rest of the way. We got Brig out and made a decision: we were going down that trail. I'm happy to report that we did it. 328 stairs down and 328 stairs back up. The kids were amazing. Chloe went down mostly by herself while Lily & Brig held my hands very tightly. Stanton had Cannon on his back and the stroller in one hand all folded up. He was a machine.

We got so many crazy looks from people seeing us go down the trail. We also got a lot of "good luck" "you're crazy" "do you know how far down that is?" and "wow, you're brave" comments.
The hike was totally worth it. Those falls are stunning. They have this neat green hue to them on one side that really captivated Lily. Chloe just loved getting her heart beating fast and seeing all the scenery, while Brigham thought the rocks and water were "ohwesome." A girl who'd passed us on the way down happened to still be down there when we arrived and insisted she take a family picture of us. I'm glad she did.

We headed back up and the kids were amazing. I only carried Brigham up one flight of stairs, maybe two. They loved seeing how fast they could get their hearts to "beep" and the promise of ice cream cones carried them up the stairs that would possibly have seemed too much otherwise.
This was the zone where Chloe really shone. She loved loved loved the challenge of all those stairs. She finished well before the rest of us and was full of energy to spare. I loved watching that.
We took a quick walk to a view of the Upper Falls and then headed to the village for ice cream. It was the best $13 we ever spent (expensive, right?!, but totally worth it). It was fun to see them all messy after earning such a treat. I'd say this was all of our favorite excursion of the whole trip.
We had an easy dinner of hot dogs cooked on the camp chef. We ate at the cabin and then got everyone to bed. It was a much better night!

We did discover on this night that Lily has sleep apnea. She had woken up suddenly at about 1 am and so I took her out to the car so she wouldn't wake everyone else up with her crying. She got under control and I took her back inside. She went back to sleep easily, but I couldn't sleep for another two and a half hours. For the first hour I listened to her snore and for the second hour and a half, I listened to her snore in a long breath, hold it for several seconds, and then gasp for another breath. Crazy! She'll be getting her (giant) tonsils out this year for sure.
We woke up refreshed (most of us) and ready for our last day in the park. Actually, it was our drive home day. We ate breakfast in the car and didn't stop at all until Old Faithful because Cannon fell asleep. We did get "stuck" behind several buffalo on our way, though. I say "stuck" because it wasn't the least bit annoying. In fact, it was a really fun way to end our animal filled trip to Yellowstone. The kids loved taking pictures of them (actually, I think Brig was the only one with any film left at that point) and I'll admit, I took a ton of pictures, too. They're really beautiful animals.
We stopped at Old Faithful for a potty break and to look at souvenirs. I found a moose hat for $10 that I love. The ones the kids wanted were pretty expensive, so we decided to wait till we got to West Yellowstone and see if we could find cheaper souvenirs there. We did, so I'm glad we waited.
We stopped in Rexburg for another potty break and drove around the campus of BYU-I. It was fun to see where I used to live (back in the Ricks days -- I always feel compelled to throw that in) and how much the campus has changed.
We planned to stop at my folks' house in Blackfoot, but Cannon fell asleep near Idaho Falls, so we drove straight through.
We stopped at the stairs near where? I don't know, Downey or somewhere on that road into Cache Valley and got a lunch ready for the kids. Once again, Chloe LOVED those stairs. She was amazing! All the kids loved stretching out their legs and even Cannon climbed all the way to the top. It was a welcome stop, as Cannon had screamed non-stop for the 30 minutes previous.
We finally got home at about 6:30. We got everything unpacked (amazing, I know!!) and can I just mention that Chloe was so amazing while we unpacked? It was like she decided she was the babysitter. She kept Lily and Brigham entertained and happy for a full hour and a half while we got everything put away. I feel like this trip bonded the three of them in a way. It was a really great evening and the kids, as well as Stanton and I, were very happy to be in our own beds.

I'm sure we have that amnesia that happens after you have a baby, because in spite of the sometimes extremely aggravating moments on the trip (you know, the yelling, fighting, name calling -- oh, you think I'm only talking about the kids?), as we made the trip home, we were already planning our next trip. I hope we get to Yellowstone every year. It's a really incredible place and I'm so glad we took the kids there.

Coming soon: Conversations -- Yellowstone Edition and Kids' View of Yellowstone.

Swim Lessons


We got swim lessons in during the last week of the summer. The girls have really improved this year. Their teacher is fantastic: no nonsense, no messing around, and excellent results. We love her.

The girls especially loved the two days I was late picking them up. Gin let them swim in the pool while they waited. The next day, Lily asked if I would be late again and Chloe added that, "Yeah, will you be late because it gives us extra time to practice our swimming." I'm pretty sure Miss Gin wasn't as thrilled with my tardiness.

Clip of Lily actually(!) swimming and Chloe actually(!) doing a backstroke. It was really quite remarkable to see their abilities after a short 2 weeks. August 19th was the show off day.

This is What an Eternal Family Looks Like



On the 15th of August we had the incredible opportunity to go to the Salt Lake Temple with Jimmy and Rachel to witness their little Shelbi being sealed to them for all eternity. The ordinance was performed by the same sealer who married James & Rachel seven years ago. It was a stunning experience and one that I hope not to forget soon.

The next day they blessed both Shelbi and Mary in church and we had a wonderful celebration afterward.

Know What Else I'm Drowning In?

A sea of blog posts that really need to be written. I'm going to try to get at them today. Lily and Brig are busy at Play-doh, Cannon is asleep, and Chloe is...well, that's a post that will hopefully make its way to the blog today.

24 August 2009

Drowning

I have that feeling today.
I'm drowning in a sea of messy toys that I just didn't want to prolong bedtime in order to clean up.
I'm drowning in a sea of laundry. 12+ loads of clean, unfolded, ridiculously unattended to for over a week laundry.
I'm drowning in a sea of emotion.
I'm drowning in a sea of messy dishes and junk cluttering up my kitchen and every other spare nook and cranny in my house.
I'm drowning in a sea of produce needing to be preserved from the garden that gave without receiving.
I'm drowning in a sea of exhaustion...post-vacation exhaustion, baby not sleeping well exhaustion, overwhelmed by the house exhaustion, etc.
I'm just drowning, that's all.

19 August 2009

Dear Moms,

We have a new found respect for you. Packing for a family vacation is hard work!!!

Love, Julie and Stanton

We're off to Yellowstone tomorrow!

13 August 2009

Kids Lately

Chloe holding out her lip: Mom, do I have a kankerchief?

Brigham getting ready for a diaper change...handing me the Vaseline: Mama, here da twampowine.

Chloe reprimanding me, while I was reprimanding Brigham: He just had major heart surgery!

Brigham when I took him to Nielsen's Frozen Custard for lunch after his cardio check-up: You'w the cooyest mom ever.

Brigham has a cute way of pronouncing the name of our neighbor, Sister Lundberg: Sisser Wungerd

Lily to my dad as they were heading home after Cannon's birthday party: Grandpa, are you gonna take the longcut?

Brigham about 4 days ago: Mowm, I weady to wear panties.
Me: Noooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!
But I relented and he's wearing underwear and we're potty training. He's doing okay. I'm trying to control my potty training rage. It helps that he just had surgery -- it's almost like he knew he should do it soon so he would still have me wrapped around his finger...

Lily: Mama, This is a new day and we're gonna have swimmin' lessons and then you're gonna give us a high five!

Brigham incredulously: That bee just bit my hair!

The kids at least 9 times a day: Mom, Cannon just said "__________!" or Mom, Cannon just did a _______________!

Cannon in exactly the tone I say it to him: Hahiyee!

Goodbye, Dear Friends

We had a farewell dinner at Iggy's with Rick and Angie Heck tonight, complete with crazy, hyper, loud children who just couldn't get enough of each other on their last night together. It was so nice and so sad at the same time. I will miss my dear friend. My kids will miss their backyard buddies. We will miss the Hecks.

Love you guys.

Brigham = Cute

I don't think there's possibly an argument that could be made to counter that.



I mean, seriously, just try and tell me this isn't cute?


That corn wasn't even cooked.

Things I Love

$7 shoes and (dare I admit it?) skinny jeans (the $9 variety).

Chloe the Great

Chloe has been really interested in learning magic tricks lately. After several days of putting her off, I finally asked Stanton to teach her a few. She has worked really hard on them and, I must say, is pretty darned good at them. She worked them into a little show and finally had an audience before Cannon's birthday party.



Chloe can: magically tie a knot in the end of a piece of rope, pick your card out of a deck, make a card disappear, and pull a rabbit out of her hat.

Here is a long video of her show. It took her a while to find my dad's card, but she didn't get flustered at all. I was really impressed with her stage presence through the whole act -- she had cute ways of introducing each trick and really kept it entertaining.



It's been fun to watch her develop her own interests and talents. I've not been very supportive of her expressing herself in ways that, bluntly, I didn't come up with on my own. I'm trying to stop that now so that she can be free to be who she wants to be and hopefully let go of some of the inhibitions I feel like I have caused her. This magic show was a good first step and really opened my eyes to the many gifts she has bubbling under her shy surface.

Oh, and I'm using a new font because I need a change and it just wouldn't be right to ask Janna to change my layout after all the incredible work she's done.

Cannon turns 1!!!

Cannon's first year has flown so much faster than any of the other kids. He just seems to have grown up without me looking. He reminds me so much of Chloe at this age -- so. much. personality.

My mom and dad came down on Saturday for the party, as well as Judy. Dave had had neck surgery the day before, so he wasn't able to come. (He's recovering nicely and has been home since Saturday).
I'm grateful to my mom for reminding me that Cannon deserves a party just as much as the others do. I was wanting to just have cake with the kids and not have to think about anything. I'm really glad my folks came down....and I still didn't have to do anything, so, love that.


The kids decorated bags to put their gifts for him in. This is what the bottom of Chloe's looked like. It says: "Hay Sooprman, Dyou wotoo go tooht zoo? Just kiden. Ur so fun. Love: Chloe To:"
Phonetically, I'd have to give her an A. She really sounded the words out beautifully!




The kids made sure to open every present for him.


I was actually really impressed with how chill he was with it all.


I told my mom to get him a "real" truck. He loves trucks...but not the baby ones. He likes Briggy's big boy trucks and pushes them around the house saying "voom." It's very cute. He was excited about the very cool fire truck.


Guess who else was excited?

In perfect first birthday fashion, he walked across the room to me a few times. He even let me catch it on video.


I went all out on the cake decorating. I'm getting smarter as they get older and only make fancy cakes when they request them. He was very happy with his chocolate cake. Oh, and Chloe was very sure to point out that it was really two cakes that we stuck together with frosting. She helped me make it, which was very fun.


Everyone had a turn blowing out Cannon's candle...except him.


He's had his fair share of experience when it comes to treats and knew exactly what to do with that fork.

Before long, though, he was through with the fork.


And was full on with the hands and face. It was really fun to watch.


Then he was happy to feed Chloe (she was a willing participant).


He had a nice, dirty birthday bath (what is it that's so cute about a kid in a bathtub?).

Cannon is: spunky, coy, very aware of everything going on around him, affectionate, scared of his siblings, very good at throwing tantrums, very happy unless he's not and then he's not, giggly, in love with Stanton and I. He is the perfect baby and really completes our family. The kids have been so excited lately to see him learn and develop. They interpret every sound he makes as a new word and every gesture as some new amazing thing he's doing. He is definitely the star of the show around here. I'm so happy we have him. He lights up the world around him and brings an element of joy we hadn't experienced before he joined our family.